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Debate erupts over handshake with Michelle Obama

Associated Press

JAKARTA, Indonesia — A conservative Muslim government minister admits he shook hands with first lady Michelle Obama in welcoming her to Indonesia but says it wasn’t his choice.

Footage on YouTube shows otherwise, sparking a debate that has lit up Facebook, Twitter and the rest of the blogosphere.

“I tried to prevent (being touched) with my hands but Mrs. Michelle held her hands too far toward me (so) we touched,” Information Minister Tifatul Sembiring told tens of thousands of followers on Twitter.

While Indonesia has the largest Muslim population in the world, the vast majority practice a moderate form of the faith. But Sembiring has flaunted his conservatism, and says he avoids contact with women who are not related to him.

The minister was among the dignitaries in a receiving line that greeted President Barack Obama and his wife as they arrived in Jakarta Tuesday. Indonesians gathered around television sets across the country to watch the American president’s arrival. Children at the school he attended practiced a song dedicated to him just in case he visited.

In footage of the official welcome, Sembiring appeared to share his countrymen’s enthusiasm. He smiled broadly as he shook the president’s hand and then reached with both hands to grasp Michelle Obama’s. But later he said she forced their contact.

His denial was in a response to tweets from Indonesians who noted the handshake and questioned his long-standing claims that, as a good Muslim, he restricts his contact with women.

Many posts had a “gotcha” quality to them.

One female journalist — who said the minister had refused to shake her hand — gleefully noted that now he would no longer be able to wriggle out of it. Continued...

Sembiring has often tweeted controversial comments, including blaming natural disasters on a lack of morality and joking about AIDS.

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Online:

Youtube: http://tinyurl.com/2f9qfe4

AP-WF-11-09-10 1552EST

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kma wrote on Nov 10, 2010 6:53 AM:

" If he did as suggested here he should just acknowledge that he was enthusiastic about the visit and made a mistake. Orthodox Jews have the same issue but you don't hear about one of them, say and Israeli official, shaking hands with a woman. Much ado about nothing. "

jeez wrote on Nov 10, 2010 6:53 AM:

" a non-story if I ever saw one. A world leader "forced" to shake hands? Sounds like his beliefs are only when convienent. Why not call them preferneces instead "

Pres obam0 wrote on Nov 10, 2010 6:56 AM:

" these people are nuts! why would they want to shake her hand` "

To Jeez wrote on Nov 10, 2010 7:22 AM:

" I would call them "preferneces" ... if I knew what that meant. "

YEAH RIGHT wrote on Nov 10, 2010 7:26 AM:

" This shows that even the most moderate Muslims are non-tolerant fanatics. So much for the religion of peace. "

TheVolleyballGod wrote on Nov 10, 2010 8:21 AM:

" People like this guy are religious freaked out weirdos. Instead of a handshake she should have kicked that sexiest pig in the knees and then given him a noogy on top of his head with her oiled up Mr. Atlas triceps. "

Dot Khan wrote on Nov 10, 2010 8:38 AM:

" Its difficult for anyone traveling abroad to remember every detail of local customs or interpretations. This goes for those in politics or on business. Even in other English speaking countries there are differences to pay attention to. 2 fingers held up may mean peace in the United States but is the equivalent of the middle finger in Australia, "

homunculus wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:15 AM:

" FTFA: "Sembiring has flaunted his conservatism".

It seems like the more conservative a person is, the more likely they are to display their boundless stupidity with arrogant pride. I don't know how or why this works, but it does.

We should urge scientists to study this. "

FOX propoganda wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:17 AM:

" more propogand from the right wing prolateriate. "

Peniculus wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:24 AM:

" Yeah, it's not like he returned a bust of Winston Churchill or anything....




(or is that too subtle?) "

To Dot Khan wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:41 AM:

" I would agree, for the average person traveling abroad it would be hard to keep all the local customs straight. But even I know that they don't touch women AND I'm pretty sure there is someone in the Presidential entourage that gets paid a good deal of money to know this stuff and share it with the Prez. and his wife. "

sarah duff wrote on Nov 10, 2010 10:39 AM:

" Mr. Obama apparently does not care that his wife was belittled after the fact by this so-called world leader. If a man
will not even stand up for his wife, how can we expect him to stand up for the American people? Oh, I forgot, he doesn't. "

Madison baseball dad wrote on Nov 10, 2010 10:49 AM:

" You gotta love the First Lady. Her husband can't seem to get anything right, but she has a pretty good batting average. Only Mrs. Obama could 'innocently' expose the hypocrisy of a fanatical Muslim. You gotta wonder whether it was happenstance or if she actively sought out the contact for just this purpose. I'm no fan of her husband, but she's okay. "

Beth wrote on Nov 10, 2010 10:49 AM:

" What stupidity. It was a handshake. Any religion against that is crazy. There are far more important things they should focus on. "

Do It Again wrote on Nov 10, 2010 10:50 AM:

" This just shows the total lack of cooth, and experience Obama’s staff has. Their job is to inform the President and First Lady of the behavior culture in foreign lands before visiting. Obviously no one has a clue. It’s getting rather old and redundant. "

Stand up for his wife wrote on Nov 10, 2010 11:19 AM:

" I guess you haven't notice, first she's bigger and stronger than her husband. She could drop-kick most men right throught the goal posts if necessary.
This whole trip has been an expensive joke on the American people. The presidents brings over 200 people with him..can you just imagine the tab on this one for us to pay. Wow. His addiction to going away and having fun is getting very old and tiring. Not to mention he needs to stay home and fix us first. Stay in the oval office and get the job done..it appears he has a short attention span...too many ciggies I guess. This what happens when 18 year olds show up and vote..ugh. "

OMG wrote on Nov 10, 2010 12:10 PM:

" Fundamentalists, whatever their stripes, seem bent on denying reality whenever it conflicts with their script. They are everywhere. Jesus told me to. Muhammed told me to. Blame Bush, Blame Obama, blame the rich, blame the poor, YADDAH YADDAH YADDAH! Could it be that Mr. Indonesia Politician is no different that the politicians we have here who pander to slices of the electorate for money and votes without ever really believing the stuff that comes out of their mouths. "

Its funny wrote on Nov 10, 2010 2:10 PM:

" It's funny how it's always the American who should know and respect others culture .
Never the other way around .
It speaks volumes about some of these "cultures" .
We are greasy turds to them , until they want or need something from us . "

Yooper wrote on Nov 10, 2010 2:35 PM:

" I hope Obama's staff tell him it's not appropriate to barf on the Prime Minister in Japan. Fox would never forgive that. "

yoop wrote on Nov 10, 2010 2:55 PM:

" barry boy's staff is more into bowing and apologising. "

Old yankee wrote on Nov 10, 2010 3:27 PM:

" Lenin said religion is the opiate of the masses.
Its against Muslim to live if you are an infidel, and we all are in that category.
Not being able to touch the hand of a women because are not blood related.WOW. Ding "

Not Fox wrote on Nov 10, 2010 3:59 PM:

" This is the AP via NHR not fox news. Thie was NOT Bush's fault, everybody above is correct except the two lefties that reference Fox news. "

Mike wrote on Nov 10, 2010 5:39 PM:

" You want to talk pure barbarism? I know this religion where, whenever a male is born, they take a piece of his you-know-what and chop it off when the kid is eight days old!

You want to talk pure lunacy? I know this religion where everyone is doomed to Hell and God impregnated a woman with himself and the version of himself that resulted from this impregnation grew up and was sacrificed so that people wouldn't have to go to Hell, except God, being God, could have just snapped his fingers and said "You're all going to Heaven now" except that that would have been too easy so God made it so that you had to earn your way into Heaven by believing in God except that no one can earn his way into Heaven because deeds don't count and anyway it's preordained who gets into heaven and there's this guy called the Pope who when he speaks ex cathedra is infallible except that that's not true for a whole bunch of people who don't accept the Pope and . . . wait, I forgot what I was talking about. "

Wheathervane wrote on Nov 10, 2010 6:16 PM:

" It`s funny , Mike . At 11:19 AM post was even more fun :
" he needs to stay home and fix us first ."
Secondly , she ( Mrs. Obama ) is not a woman , she is American Democrat ! I guess Democracy is not connected to a gender . "

Zack wrote on Nov 10, 2010 6:22 PM:

" Bid deal. These Indonesian Leaders" would shake our anythings when we're there saving their royal azzes and aiding them during their many emergencies. Floods, mud slides hurricanes and so forth. We don't need them, they need us. "

wrong place wrote on Nov 10, 2010 7:25 PM:

" Oh , how sad ... He will feel dirty for the rest of his Indonesian life !
Don`t mix politics and religion then , stay home and pray . "

Monica Lnsky wrote on Nov 10, 2010 7:36 PM:

" I would never do such thing in Indonesia . There is always some sort of trouble ... "

NO Class wrote on Nov 10, 2010 8:33 PM:

" Can this fake Preidsent make the USA look like bigger fools anymore then he does?

That is there custom and on there land. You follow and respect there custom as we would expect the same. NO CLASS fraud President. "

old yankee wrote on Nov 10, 2010 8:41 PM:

" Mike

What are yo trippen on? woW! come on down and hug a tree. "

Tifatul Sembiring wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:09 PM:

" That was a woman? "

Franklin wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:18 PM:

" Mike is a typical leftist bigot.That's all.Intolerance and prejudice is O.K. as long as it's against
those who he hates. "

to NO class wrote on Nov 10, 2010 9:40 PM:

" It`s their , not there . " their land " and " their customs " .
Thank you . "

wake up CT wrote on Nov 11, 2010 8:35 AM:

" Like I just said and it was deleted ;
I DON`T HAVE PROBLEMS IF YOU DO - YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO !

Sincerely , Mishel O./ "

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